Dude, if we're talking about the type of person I think we're talking about, you're dealing with raging hypocrites who are in massive denial about their psychosexual issues that they're too "fragile" to deal with honestly.

I mean, being honest would lead to feeling honestly bad, would alienate a bunch of fan-friends, and there'd be loss of status. Honest self-improvement is not always that great in comparison; sometimes you just want to be the popular bitch who writes stuff that makes you more popular.