Yeah, every time I think about Dinah in current canon, I'm just like "Hey, Mid-Life Crisis Woman, wherever you're done running around with your high school sweetheart, your wife and adopted kid would like you to come home." That and a healthy dose of gay panic can explain many of Dinah's mysteries (although even I can only D: at the thought of justifying how the hell the leader of the JLA sticks around with someone who has even thought about cold-cocking her so he can do things his way. That's like something I would come up with in a fic about why Dinah and Babs belong together, then I would discard it for being too character-bashy).

And I imagine Barbara had only CGIed Charlie's face onto a few dorky-dancing Youtube clips before Charlie got the message.